Caregiver Support

Caregiver Transformation

Today, we’re celebrating with Somène, a mother who stopped by our Cap Haitien Family Center this week to pick-up her second Business Kit! 

How did Somène get here? Who is the little one in her arms?

And what’s a “Business Kit?”

You’re about to find out!

But first, let’s give you a proper introduction.

Somène is 35 years old. She is a mother of 3 and she lives here in Cap Haitien, together with her entire family.

She is one of 280+ caregivers, who spent time at one of our Malnutrition Treatment Centers with a child in 2023.

Somène warmed to our team quickly. They describe her as “kind to everyone and and always smiling.”

But what stood out to our team the most was how close she was to her children.

Somène had all three of her children with her at the center: Her youngest, Ruth, who was being treated for Malnutrition, and her two big brothers, ages 2.5 and 6.

Ruth’s brothers weren’t alone in their “big-sibling” status.

About 10% of the children that spend time at our center are accompanied by one or two “healthy” siblings in addition to their mother, or another primary caregiver.

We know that not every caregiver has someone to look out for their other children while they focus on a single child and spend week nights at our center. So we welcome and encourage parents to bring these other children with them to Second Mile.

Often, the siblings even make a few new friends of their own.

So what about Baby Ruth, Somene’s daughter? How did she fair?

When Somène first arrived at Second Mile Haiti, her daughter was 9 months old and weighed just 7 lbs.

She was a tiny thing, with big eyes and skin the color of heavily-creamed coffee, made pale by anemia and other nutrient deficiencies.

When we met her she was one of the smallest 9-month-olds we’d ever seen.

Malnutrition is graded in severity by a few different indicators and one is the circumference of a child’s upper arm.

For a child under 5 years old, that measurement should be at least 13.5 cm (about the size of a gatorade cap). But Ruth’s was only 7.5 cm, smaller even than the small white cap of a plastic Coca Cola bottle.

Somène shared that Ruth had been sick repeatedly for the past 6 months and had endured two different hospitalizations for those illnesses.

The little one had seen a lot in a short amount of time.

She had a strong appetite. And shockingly! No underlying illnesses or infections to hamper her progress. She gained weight every day and made a miraculous and drastic recovery under her mother’s diligent care.

Amazing, right?

What’s often most impactful to us is not the child’s transformation, but the caregiver’s.

And in this photo, Somène is giving confidence, peace, and joy!

Somène was active in all of the classes and learning opportunities available to her at the center from art and sewing to gardening—and learned a lot about health and nutrition.

But her biggest take away was this.

“I feel happy because when I first arrived, I felt completely overwhelmed with stress. Now I’m going back with a lot of joy.”

Ruth has never been better! She’s continues to improve every week in her mom’s care.

Somène stays busy with her business which she launched a few weeks after leaving Second Mile. She sets up her business every morning in front of the rented home where her family has been living.

Ruth is never far away.

Somène has had success with her business so far. She’s been able able to put some money in savings and ensure that her family eats well, all while growing the business with new products.

She hopes to buy some land and build a house one day.

If her success at Second Mile Haiti in any indication, we have no doubt she’ll achieve that goal!

Sending love and gratitude from Somène and all of us at Second Mile Haiti.

❤️‍🩹 ➡️ 💖

Caregiver Support

It was late on a Thursday afternoon when Rosemene, 26, arrived at the Malnutrition Treatment Center with her niece, Melissa. She’d travelled more than 2 hours to get there.

As our team evaluated the one-year-old it became instantly clear that she couldn’t stay. She would first need intensive care at a nearby hospital—at least for a few days.

We would support them while they were there, pay Melissa’s hospital fees, and make sure her aunt had money for food.

When Rosemene heard of our plans to send them to the hospital, she was distraught.

She thought about how long she’d been trying to nurse her niece back to health. She thought about the money she’d spent so far and knew she couldn’t afford whatever hospital fees were in store. She started crying.

In a whisper we heard her tell the one-year-old, “I don’t think there’s anything else I can do to save you.”

What Rosemene hadn’t understood was that a nurse from Second Mile Haiti would accompany them to the hospital and help them get settled in.

She hadn’t understood that her medical fees would be paid for and she’d have money in her hands for food and other essentials.

Six months ago Rosemene lost her sister—the baby’s mother. Before that her mom and dad died. And only one week before she arrived at Second Mile Haiti, her brother died unexpectedly.

There were now 5 children living under her roof. And the small amount of money she made working at a nearby business wasn’t enough to support them all.

The kind of support Second Mile Haiti was now offering her, was so outside of her reality, that that it wasn’t sinking in.

There were no guarantees, but Melissa still had a chance.

At the hospital, Melissa received the emergency care she needed and when she returned to our Treatment Center, she continued to improve rapidly.

Rosemene now understood what we had tried to convey on Day 1.

At Second Mile, there was an entire team of people who cared not just about her niece’s survival, but about her well-being too.

Thanks to your support, Rosemene found a reason to hope and a new family to walk with her on this journey called life.

Melissa is thriving in her care.

As always, we are so glad you’re walking with us on the Second Mile.

Thanks for reading!

❤️ from Haiti